Self love is the biggest thing in life, might not seem like it but it is. You have to be able to be proud of the person you are becoming. If something is bothering you about yourself then change it. Be a better person, work on yourself for you. Give yourself pep talks, make yourself feel good, be you. Let everyone see how imperfect, flawed, quirky, weird, and amazing you actually are and not give a shit about what anyone thinks. Regardless of how anyone thinks of you, choose to be happy and love yourself. Give yourself that love that you deserve, because self love is the best love.